How To Stay On Your Diet During The Holiday- 5 Useful Tips
How To Stay On Your Diet During The Holiday- 5 Useful Tips
Every year we struggle with the seemingly Herculean task of staying on our diet during Thanksgiving and the holidays that follow. The holidays are a great time to be with friends and family- but as many of you can attest, family and friends can often be the motivating factor to you not eating as you should. Some simply will not stand for you not indulging in all the not-so-good-for-you holiday treats and will insist that you partake fully in the eating frenzy! This added to the pressure of having an enormous amount of great tasting food in front of you makes it all too easy to lose your sense of moderation, but if you follow some simple steps you can indeed stay on your diet during the holidays. I have been commended over the years (and yelled at on numerous occasions!) for never wavering on my diet, no matter what the occasion or how tempting the foods may be. As ego gratifying as it might be to lay claim to a superhuman degree of discipline and self control the reality of how I stay on my diet during the holidays (and all year round) has less to do with self control and discipline and more with using a set of tried and true practical skills. Skills that I learned after failing miserably at staying on my diet just like everyone else for many years. Eating consistently well isn’t rocket science, but without the proper tools it can indeed seem as insurmountable a task as landing a man on Mars. That being said here are five battle tested strategies that have helped me and the hundreds of people who I have been privileged to work with stay on their diets during the holidays and throughout the year.
How To Stay On Your Diet During The Holidays- Tip 1: Fill Up Before The Festivities
On the day of a holiday meal nothing is more critical to ensuring your moderation than filling yourself up long before the festivities begin. A big breakfast with high fiber foods like oatmeal (the real stuff not the instant kind), fruit and lean protein sources like egg whites are the perfect way to start your day! After a fast of several hours our bodies are designed to absorb and use the most nutrients at this time of the day. Failure to eat well at breakfast time puts you in a bit of a nutrient deficit. One that grows and grows as the day advances culminating in major food cravings later in the day. That being said on a day where you are expect to have a large meal like eating a hearty breakfast will go a long way in reducing the amount of food that you will eat. so be sure to start the day right! (You can download my free ebook on healthy breakfast choices here!)
How To Stay On Your Diet During The Holidays- Tip 2: Drink Lots Of Water
It is such a simple trick that it is often overlooked. A large glass of water right before digging in to a big meal will go a long way to filling you up and reducing the amount of food that will can eat. Equally important is making the choice to have water as your only beverage rather than juice or alcohol. Consider for a minute that alcohol contains seven calories per gram and that it is broken down by your liver in such a way that promotes the storage of fat around your internal organs and you can clearly see that zero calorie water is a better choice. Juices don’t fare any better as they are not only unnatural but loaded with liquid calories that are just too easy to go overboard with. (Read more about juices and the impact it can have on you gaining weight here). Having water with your meals is an invaluable way to keep the extra pounds off, so be sure to fill your glass during the holidays and afterwards!
How To Stay On Your Diet During The Holidays- Tip 3: Follow The Rule Of Thirds
My rule of thirds is an easy way to always keep your eating in check and works especially well to help you stay on your diet not only for the holidays, but all year round. The rule is:
Always eat a serving 1/3 less than what you would normally eat and always keep 1/3 of your stomach empty at all times.
A simple tenet, but a powerful way to keep yourself in control of your eating habits at all times- and it is easy to remember and put into practice! Eating to the point of feeling like an over inflated car tire isn’t healthy nor should it ever be the goal of a holiday meal regardless of the occasion. Studies have shown time and time again how difficult it is for us to estimate our calorie intake, but by using the rule of thirds you have a practical way to enjoy your foods without overdoing it. Unfortunately, it doesn’t take that many calories over what your body actually needs for you to start gaining weight, so you have to be diligent about your food intake at all times. Besides, is it really comforting to feel yourself bursting at the seams? I think not!
How To Stay On Your Diet During The Holidays Tip 4: Eat Slowly
My mother was right. Eating slowly is an extremely effective way to reduce the likelihood of overeating. Studies show that the faster you eat the more likely you are to eat more than you should. It takes a while for our brain to get the signal to stop eating- our bodies secrete hormones glucagon-like peptide-1 and peptide YY that help us feel filled and satisfied but it takes a while before it takes full effect. So if you eat too fast you’ll get the message to stop eating long after you should have already stopped, so slowing down is an important tool in the fight against overeating. You also enjoy your foods far better if you eat slowly and it is better for your digestion. My trick is to use the great conversation that you can have at a dinner table as a way to extend the time it takes you to eat. That way you are less likely to overeat and you will also have a good time enjoying the company of those around you! Remember- healthy eating is about enjoying your food and your life- it isn’t about being Spartan. For a more detailed explanation on how eating slowly can help you stay on your diet check out my article on eating slowly here.
How To Stay On Your Diet During The Holidays- Tip 5: Team Up
The hardest part of eating well for Thanksgiving, any holiday or family and friend gatherings isn’t always the food; it’s the pressure you feel from others to eat the food! We are hardwired as group animals to follow others and at mealtime it can be a real issue when you are not taking part in what everyone else is eating. For me growing up in the islands staying on my diet around the holidays was always excruciating until I realized I should use the same peer pressure dynamic to my advantage. How do you do that? There are two ways:
Step 1. The Easy Way:
The easiest way is to get someone else who is also trying to eat healthy to accompany you at the Thanksgiving meal or any big get together that involves food. It could be a friend, family member or love one but you both have to agree on supporting each other and have similar goals. It makes a huge difference! By having someone at your side you won’t feel as isolated when you don’t eat what everyone else is eating and you’ll have someone to back you up if the pressure starts to build. By supporting them you will also reinforce your own position and quite often others in the group may come around and see the value in your choices.
Step 2. The Hard Way:
The other way is to recruit family, friends and people around you to help you stay on the right path during the holidays. People are very interesting beings in that if you say that you’re on a diet for health reasons, hardly anyone is going to take you seriously and they’ll keep on doing everything in their power to entice you to eat the foods that you shouldn’t. However if you said you entered a contest where you’ll win $1,000 if you lose ten pounds in two months and that needed everyone’s help to stay on track- you’d be surprised how eager people can be to lend their support (just don’t promise to share the profits!) I think it makes it easier for people to relate as the healthy lifestyle approach just doesn’t cut it. When I was younger at a big food gathering I would announce that I had a major bodybuilding contest or photo shoot coming up and that my career depended on my doing well (which was always true). The response was usually overwhelming- with some of my friends going so far as to inform everyone that I was really important that I stayed on my diet and to look out for me to make sure that I didn’t slip! The support was invaluable to me over the years and to this day my friends would leap across the room to stop me from eating a piece of cake as they know the way I look and the way I live is an important factor in my credibility as a personal trainer and health and fitness writer. I don’t see myself ever going for that piece of cake, but it is nice to know that if I did my friends and family would be there to stage an intervention! Having a family that takes eating well as seriously as I do makes my life much easier as well! So do your best to get others involved. Not only will it make you feel better but it also gives them a chance to feel good about helping you! Have a Happy Thanksgiving and Happy Holidays!!!!
Kevin Richardson is an award winning health and fitness writer, one of the most sought after personal trainers in New York City and creator of Naturally Intense High Intensity Training™. Get a copy of his free weight loss ebook here. If you live in the New York metropolitan area and need help losing weight or taking your body to the next level give Kevin and his team a call at 1-800-798-8420 or click here to get started with 50% off your trial personal training session.





























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